12th Mar 2010
Stupid boys on the bus...?
i dont know why, i dont know how, i didnt even talk to them before. Theres a group of about four boys who go to a boys school near us on the bus, they look like year 7 or 8 and im in year 6, and they target me and make fun of me. They say stuff like "is your mum a whore" and "your so fugly" and all i say is go away. Theres like 10 girls on the bus and they dont do anything except throw stuff at them. This afternoon they were taking pictures of me and laughing and making fun of me. This has
been going on for about two weeks and i want it to stop. i dont want to tell my parents because they ALWAYS make a big deal of things and i dont want to switch buses because if i do i will be all alone with no friends. What should i do?
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the annoying thing is i dont even know their names....
im a really sensitive person and i usually get really upset if someone makes fun of me...i cant help being sensitive its in my nature....i usually feel like crying when they talk to me and i dont want to burst into tears soon or i would look like a loser...thankyou for your answers so far
my school's girls go on the bus on the first stop...the boy's school goes on the bus at the fourth stop...they sit near me and i cant really move coz its always a crowded bus.
If you can, make friends with a girl older than them. I'm in year 10 now and if the boys pick on the little kids I give 'em a b o llickin g. lol
Anyhoo ignore them. Don't even turn around or twitch when they say sumthing or throw something.
However, if they are like the boys in my year, if you do end up crying they'll leave you alone.
Year 7s and 8s??? What little t w a t s!!! They haven't even started puberty then. I scare the s h i t out of little kids their age like that every day.
Cheer up. One day they'll grow up.
I don't know what you can do sweetie.
Just try to ignore them and if it continues then talk to your bus driver.
It is a true fact that when guys tease you they like you. Let them know that it doesn't get to you about what they say and don't stand for it any longer, you obviously stand out to them for some reason so make sure to ignore them. It would probably be a good idea to tell your parents, they will help you.
Hope that helps.
boys are stupid especailly at that age
ignore them dont pay them any attention and they will get bored, , the more of a reaction they get the more they will do it.
have a quiet word with the bus driver, he may be able to discourage them
or i would write a letter to the bus company explaining the harrasment you are recieving and copy your school in on the letter, and ask them to take the appropiate action .
erh boys , one day they will grow up, take care
Kick there butt! If there is anything that will make a boy shut up it is being beat up by a girl. JK.
Really what you should do is go talk to them. Telling them to stop and going up to them and telling them how you fell may same like almost the same thing. Telling them and talking to them and asking them will give you different reactions most of the time.
WOW they are SOOOOO gay! One day you will be this hott model and they will come up and say how bad they feel for the time in 7th grade when they were *@(!(^^^#****s and you will blow them off for your hott movie start boyfriend. Just ignore them and make sure not to react to them because that is what they are looking for. Just act SO above it and they will feel sooo gay because they aren't even affecting you! I LOVE YOU GOOD LUCK!
well i would say tell your parents coz they do know what there doing, there actually pretty smart thoughs parents, and your lucky your parents do make a big deal about things it shows they care about your well being...
option
a) tell your rents
b) ignore them, they'll find some one else to pick on, or they'll gorw out of it :)
good luck x
girl, first of all you need to act like it doesn't bother you. I'm sure these freakazoids can tell they're upsetting you which is why they keep it up. You definately need to tell your parents or the bus driver or a teacher. Use a cell phone and record what they're doing and show it to whomever you tell. If u don't have a phone, just borrow one.
The driver has a responsibility towards you as does the school...if you really dont want to complain to an adult then all I can suggest is that you make sure you dont sit near them...but honestly I would tell my parents and let them make a big fuss....whats the problem with that? They're in the wrong....get them kicked off!
Oh you poor thing! Try asking acouple of your friends to take the other bus with you mayB. If ya don't want to do that then you might have to try talk to a teacher about them or the bus driver and maybe they can keep an eye on those litttle brats.
GOOD LUCK!!!
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I WOULD TELL YOUR BUS DRIVER... THOSE BOYS COULD GET INTO BIG TROUBLE, AND SOUNDS LIKE THEY NEED TO BE. HONESTLY BOYS AT THAT AGE ARE JUST RIDICULOUS, BUT THAT SOUNDS VERY HARRASSING AND YOU NEED TO TELL SOMEONE, EVEN YOUR PARENTS BEFORE IT GOES ANY FURTHER.
GOOD LUCK.
well if they say...is your mum a whore? u should respond by saying idk but i i know urs is. u have to let them know that u have a voice. if u sit there and do nothing about it, it's gonna get worse. if u don't speak up for ur self, who will? if u need more help, email me. and i'll teach u comebacks. =]
seriously punch one of them. pick the runt. and dont hold back. Then the rest of them will make fun of him for geting hit by a girl. if he punchs back he will get in trouble cause your the girl. GIRL POWER!!!
Seriously i had the same problem but you have to report them or stop taking the bus they are just teasing you because they have no life and are obliviously air-headed retards so do either one of those 2
i suggest you kick some *** and take some names to show how tough you are or just try switching buses or call your parents to pick you up.
The best thing to do is don't pay attention. They will notice that you don't care and eventually leave you alone.
They like you and have started a fan club tell your bus driver maybe he can help let him know wat's going on and that you want it to stop and then maybe it will
well i think the boys like you they just say your ugly to cover the fact that your so hot just ask them that if they like you or y don't you tell their principle or sit sum wer els
You'll be alone with no friends on another bus? So that means you have friends on the bus that you're on now? Then shouldn't they stand up for you?
have your parents take you to school and pick you up!
riding the bus is lame anyways!
tell the school that the boys go to that they're bullying you
kick one of them in the nuts . that should make them leave you alone.
sit toward the front by the bus driver..
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WHAT! WHAT ARE THEIR NAMES ILL KICK THE CRAP OUT OF THEM!
Tell ur close guy friend who won't be afraid of kicking those small nuts.
I'd like to kick their @$$. Stupid punks. Those are the kids that are going to grow up to be garbage collectors. While you will grow up to be something much more meaningful.
Can you in the first seat by the bus driver? The bus driver should not allow this type of stuff to go on.
Why Do Kids Bully?
Kids bully for a variety of reasons. Sometimes they pick on kids because they need a victim someone who seems emotionally or physically weaker, or just acts or appears different in some way to feel more important, popular, or in control. Although some bullies are bigger or stronger than their victims, that's not always the case.
Sometimes kids torment others because that's the way they ve been treated. They may think their behavior is normal because they come from families or other settings where everyone regularly gets angry, shouts, or calls names.
Try to ignore the bully. Bullies often stop if they don't have an audience. Ignoring may be difficult, however. Sometimes, it can't be done.
If you continue to be bullied, tell the bully to stop. Look him or her in the eye, and without name calling, say, I want you to stop it.
Try to sit with kids who are friends, or at least kids you feel safe with.
Don't provoke the bully by staring because staring is seen as confrontational.
Practice sitting up straight. Walk tall. Walk confident. Targets of bullies often slouch in their seats or when they walk, which fuels the bully.
If problems continue, tell the bus driver. If that doesn't help, tell the principal. Tell your parents.
having to deal with bullies is never fun. don't feel like you did something or that there is something wrong with you in some way... sometimes these jerks just pick on random people to make themselves feel superior. it's sad really. since this is taking place near your bus stop, talking to your bus driver might help (maybe they can arrive a little early or something or at least be aware of the problem). or is there any way you can go to a different bus stop? or get a ride to school? not that running from the problem is always best, but with stupid boys like this, sometimes they don't get better with a simple talking to. if you have friends with you at the bus I would say to make sure to stay in a group with them and just try to ignore them, they might get bored if they don't feel like they are getting to you at all, and might drop their whole immature crap. good luck!
They sound horrible. I'm afraid if you're not willing to teel your parents or your teachers that your best bet is to completely ignore them. Chances are if they get no reaction from you for a while they'll get bored and stop.
I don't understand why the bus driver doesn't do anything about this.
I do think you should tell your parents if it doesn't stop. They don't go to your school, so it shouldn't effect your friendships. And maybe you can get a friend or two to switch buses with you for a little while.
I'm sorry! I hope it gets better.
WOULD TELL YOUR BUS DRIVER... THOSE BOYS COULD GET INTO BIG TROUBLE, AND SOUNDS LIKE THEY NEED TO BE. HONESTLY BOYS AT THAT AGE ARE JUST RIDICULOUS, BUT THAT SOUNDS VERY HARRASSING AND YOU NEED TO TELL SOMEONE, EVEN YOUR PARENTS BEFORE IT GOES ANY They sound horrible. I'm afraid if you're not willing to teel your parents or your teachers that your best bet is to completely ignore them. Chances are if they get no reaction from you for a while they'll get bored and stop.
I don't understand why the bus driver doesn't do anything about this.
I do think you should tell your parents if it doesn't stop. They don't go to your school, so it shouldn't effect your friendships. And maybe you can get a friend or two to switch buses with you for a little while.
I'm sorry! I hope it gets better.
I completely understand you worrying about talking with your parents about this situation...things like that can get embarrassing depending on their reaction to the issue. However, I do think you need to talk to an adult about it. Do you have someone at school you can trust to deal with the problem? (a guidance counselor, principal, teacher, etc?)
Even though you may feel nervous about talking with one of them about the problem, they are trained to deal with problems like yours...it is their job, actually. They can even help deal with issues with kids from other schools, so don't worry. I suggest you find someone at school to talk to about it. I assure you that they will deal with it in a timely manner and put an end to it. You don't deserve the harrassment...and if you don't do something about these boys, they'll keep harrassing you...and others.
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