Im being bullied : i need help!?@!?!#?!?

i need help being bullied at school im a little over wieght so i get called fat........:( please say what i could do to stop bullies.

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thanx for answers i decided to ignore him...didnt work i got mad......challenged him to a fight, beat the crap out of him, now i doubt he will mess with me again peace ,,,/ ty for help I wrote something about how I handled the teasing I put up with in school. I am sure it help you some. It is called "Killing them with kindness" -

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I was teased to the point where I still have awful low self esteem. To this day if I pass someone laughing I worry they are laughing at me.

I dropped out of school in 10th grade due to awful depression and many other mental issues. Some due to the teasing and some from past childhood sexual abuse.

Teasing eats you up inside and it stays there. I still remember the pain. I went as far as cutting myself. This was back in 1989. Later on as I got older the cutting went to where I'd beat my arms and legs with a bat till I was bruised something awful. Even a Dr. said "This doesn't look like you fell down." Yet he did nothing.

I'm 33 now and God has helped me a lot. Please read what I wrote about how I handled my bullies. My mom is very verbally abusive and I use this method with her too. My dad read it and he now uses it too. lol He told me it "That was wonderful dear. I know how you are talking about and yes it works." ; )

Hugs. Change your thinking. There's an old saying, "...You are what you think".

Loving and accepting yourself is very important and can provide you with inner strength. You are the only one who will love and take care of you for the duration of you life so change you're thinking...and actually like yourself a little bit. Once you do that, you can move on to finding the energy to eat right and exercise-not to please them-but for your own health and happiness.

As far as the bullying goes, I have zero tolerance for bullies. Have your parents write a letter to the teacher and principal and followup to make sure changes are made to protect all students from bullies.

you can ignore them. they will very likely get bored and stop. you have to REALLY ignore them though.

you can get in a physical fight.

you can tease him back. (make it vicious)

you can talk to a teacher, though this will only help in the short run and will worsen things in the long run.

there is one thing though. whatever course of action you take, don't make it half baked. if it is going to work at all, you have to commit, and don't back down. if you back down, the teasing may even become worse. just find a plan and stick too it.

You poor thing! First of all, you need to tell your parents what is going on, then if you have a school counselor, ask to speak to them. If you are still not getting anywhere, you need to talk to your principle. Kids are so cruel and everyone has something wrong with them, that's why nobody's perfect! Don't be hard on yourself, just be yourself and if that's not good enough, then maybe the people picking on you are uncomfortable with themselves! But please, talk to someone at your school or someone that can do something to help you with this situation. Good luck!!!

This is what you do if you have the courage to say it. When they call you a fat name, laugh really hard and then say " Well, you're ugly and that's permanent. I can lose weight. The other thing is to stop being a victim, an easy mark. Embrace who you are now and walk with confidence. Go to the administration and report the jerks. Good luck.

I used to get bullied by a guy I grew up with, named Jay. He was a big kid, naturally athletic, etc... But he liked to push me around.

So, one day I went to his house and challenged him to a fight. He kicked my a** all around the field where we fought. But I never backed down. I kept getting up and I kept swinging. He actually stopped the fight because he thought I had had enough.

You know what? Jay respected me after that, and so did a lot of other kids. Jay and I even ended up fairly good friends in later years.

I'm not suggesting you go pick a fight. What I am saying is that no one wants to pick on someone that's not going to take it. It's no fun.

exersize
eat right
join sports
buff up
show em' who's boss.
IF it fails, they only pick on you because they are upset at themselves. And there is nothing you can do about it. You can file things called "Bully Complaints" They are completley anonymous and you don't even have to do it. Get a buddy to. Your not a snitch if u r in a potentially dangerous situation.

They are losers. They have no compassion for others. If you sink to their level then you are no better than they are. So, what you do is ignore them. I got picked on a lot when I was in school just for being poor. You know, nowadays I look at those people and they are the scum of society. Every one of them ended up on cocaine and in the bars every other night. If that's where being cool would have gotten me, I wouldn't change a thing! Maybe not having any friends is what kept me out of trouble. You might go through hell now, but in the end it makes you stronger and you still have your self-respect. Oh yeah, chubby guys make the best husbands btw. :)

if they say your fat or anything say...and your point is? or say who cares or just ignore them completely they make fun of you for there enjoyment and some girls who are complete bitches and find it funny when the bullies make fun of other people and think its funny and cool (i know theres some of you out there) so yeah say things like that

Ask the bully to stop. Remember not to get aggressive or passive - be assertive.
Tell a teacher, a parent, someone you can trust - don't be embarrassed to tell anyone about it. They can help you.
Try to work out a little, eat healthier food - to avoid future bullying.

ask the people that are bulling u why they are doing this.....everyone has weight issues....u may already be doing what u can to keep healthy so i dont know if exercising more is the key.....but tell the people they are bugging u.....Tell them to F&^% off!!

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